Hi, would you marry me? Carlos Frum, District 6440 membership chair, compares courting new members with the dating process in a post on the district's blog. "Hi, would you like to marry me?" is as silly a question as "Hi, would you like to be a Rotarian?" yet some of us are still trying to court new members this way. There is a process, not unlike courtship or good salesmanship, that will secure an "I do!" from a candidate.